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Not your Lodi

When someone inspires you to become a better person, that person deserves our respect and admiration, but we should not turn that person into an Idol (or Lodi, as it is referred to in some countries). 

People, be they a celebrity or just the woman down the street, are humans. As such, humans are allowed to have flaws, make the occasional mistake, and not please everyone all of the time. Idols on the other hand do not have such flexibility.  We put them on a pedestal and expect them to be perfect all of the time, to have no flaws, and always please everyone.

We are simply not being fair to ourselves or the individuals in question if we do not allow  these individuals to be a living breathing 'flesh and blood' person, who happens to inspire us through their own lives and accomplishments, and how they have impacted others.

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